Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us.
In depth? Deep down I’m not very deep, but here goes:
I’m submissive, but only to my spouse and owner, Lily. I do play with other people on occasion, but I would have to call that simply bottoming.
I do switch on occasion, but it’s new and unfamiliar terrain for me so I’m taking that slowly.
Some of the other BDSM roles are grouped under submissive, and again these are only in the context of my relationship with Lily: Submissive, slave, brat, switch, pet, rope bunny.
I am vast; I contain multitudes.
I love bondage more than any other specific BDSM activity. Some might call that a fetish, but IIRC, a fetishist is someone whose sexual desire and/or gratification is 100% linked to whatever their fetish is. As I said, though, I do enjoy bondage a great deal, but I’m not dependent on bondage for any gratification.
I think the common thread in all these things is the power exchange. It’s the core of every role and activity I’ve mentioned.